Sr. Sharlet Wagner speaks to LCWR assembly about call 'to model hope' amid despair

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Holy Cross Sr. Sharlet Wagner loves theme parks, especially roller coasters — which is a good thing, she said, because religious life is often like the rides that "throw us onto our backs, turn us upside-down, lead us to scream and to laugh and sometimes to mutter, 'This is crazy. Why am I doing this?' "

Despite the twists and turns of a world filled with hateful rhetoric and political division, a church beset by a decadeslong abuse scandal and the diminishing number of women religious, Catholic sisters are called to stand together and be models of hope, Wagner said in her Aug. 15 presidential address to the Leadership Conference of Women Religious' annual assembly. The event, taking place Aug. 13-16 in Scottsdale, Arizona, drew nearly 700 women religious and guests.

"Religious life has a prophetic role in the church that we must claim and exercise, and in exercising that prophetic call, we are stronger when we are able to discern and lift our voices together," she said. "The signs of our times reveal a particular call in our day to reach across borders to nurture and strengthen our global sisterhood."

A troubled planet is depending on sisters, Wagner said.

"Our world longs for the words and example of hope people of faith can bring," she said. "While some elected leaders seek to scatter through promotion of fear, we are called to gather through promotion of hope."

Wagner said the hope sisters carry is not naive but is "rooted firmly in reality and trusts confidently in God."

That hope must extend to the issue of the rapidly declining number of women religious in the United States, she said, noting that sisters are often told there are many forces at work and the decline "is not your fault."

But that presupposes the shifts taking place are bad, Wagner said.

"I do not say that these shifts are not painful, but it is possible for a situation or experience to be painful, even excruciatingly painful, and not be wrong," she said. "I do not pretend to understand all that is occurring with and within religious life today, but I know that God is good and I know that God's goodness continues to pour forth within and through our sisters and our congregations. ... We are called to walk this path in the most authentic, faith-filled and passionate ways that we can, and to enter into the utter madness and mystery of it all."

It is LCWR members' responsibility as leaders to be models of hope for their communities, Wagner said.

"Part of our task as leaders is to help our congregations be realistic about our demographics without being defeatist," she said. "Those of us whose congregations are dealing with completion particularly know what it means to embrace reality with passion and courage and with a deep-down faith in the God who continues to call and guide us. When we understand that our witness is at least as important as our work and that neither our witness nor our work is dependent upon age and numbers, then we can look reality in the face and smile at it."

While the demographics of religious life show a steep decline in numbers of Catholic sisters in the United States, they also show ever-increasing diversity, another challenge sisters must face head-on, Wagner said, and not give up when it becomes difficult.

"We've set out with all goodwill on a journey of intercultural living, but I find that we too often start tapping the brakes as we begin to live into the implications of operating as truly intercultural communities," she said. "We speak increasingly of religious life as intercultural congregations, but we're still discovering what it means to live and operate in intercultural ways, and I believe that religious life as a body is at the early stages of that exploration and discovery."

She said sisters around the world must also address the deep loneliness frequently expressed by younger sisters, who want to belong and be valued for what they can contribute.

"Younger members are yearning to be heard, to contribute, to influence the discussion and decisions and directions of their congregations and of this life," Wagner said. "We all recognize when we are simply being listened to and when we are actually being heard. Young people are no exception. We need to hear one another, including the youth in our congregations and in the broader church and society."

Wagner also told the assembly's attendees they must face down the national and global rise of hatred and nationalism and fight the results of that rhetoric.

"We have seen the horrific but entirely predictable results of the tactics of division on display on our television screens and in our newspapers over the past few weeks. Hate-filled rhetoric has fueled hate-filled violence," she said.

Wagner's address came one day after the assembly voted overwhelmingly to send an open letter to President Donald Trump urging him to end his divisive rhetoric.

"We are outraged and heartbroken when our political leaders appeal to our basest instincts and stoke the fires of fear that threaten to tear the fabric of our nation apart," the sisters said in the letter. "We cannot, we will not, let the voices of hatred and fear carry the day."

Sisters must also fight policies based on hatred, Wagner said.

"Our hearts have broken for our immigrant friends, our sisters and brothers who no longer feel welcome or even safe in their adopted home. For American citizens born and raised here, who are told to go back to where they came from," Wagner said. "For children who live each day in fear that ICE will come and Mom and Dad won't be there when they get home from school. For desperate families fleeing poverty and violence who are met at the border with inhumanity and cages."

[Dan Stockman is national correspondent for Global Sisters Report. His email address is Follow him on Twitter and on Facebook.]